I wanted to be successful, without really knowing what that meant to me or how to go about reaching that ultimate destination. Graham and the team at Rexov assisted me in working out what success meant to me and helped me build strategies to move towards this ideal life. Through the coaching process I increased my income by 20% and found ways to mentally challenge myself out side of work so that a) I didn’t feel unfulfilled in that area of my life and b) so I enjoyed work more for what if was and didn’t expect it to fill all my needs. Secondly I got real about how much money I had and how much I therefore could spend. The achievement of this goal has made me see the importance of budgeting and sticking to it and the assurance that I have enough money to pay my bills and too have fun. As of October 09 I’m debt free and it feels very liberating.
The other area of my life that I worked on was my emotions. It’s great to be in touch with how you feel and get emotional about things your passionate about, but I felt my emotions were ruling me and having a negative effect on my professional life and personal relationships. Working through past experiences and learning different strategies and perspectives really helped me gain control. Coaching helped me to continue to grow and develop as a person in all aspects of my life. It’s amazing to look back and see that just by getting clear on what I wanted, having support and guidance along the way, and by adding a bit focus how much easier it was to achieve my goals. The greatest realisation of all was being Okay with where I am now and not needing to be in the ever evolving ‘ultimate destination’ to feel Successful, and that brings me a lot of joy.
Tanya , Sydney, Australia |
